Therapy for Anxiety, Trauma, and Relationships in New York (LGBTQ+ & Non-Monogamy Affirming)
About Cabezas Therapy
What types of therapy do you offer?
We provide therapy for individuals, couples, and relationships across New York. We specialize in anxiety, trauma, LGBTQ+ identities, and non-monogamous relationships, helping clients build deeper, more authentic connections with themselves and others.
Cabezas Therapy is a multilingual group practice based in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, offering individual therapy, couples and relationship therapy, and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy across New York State. We work from a trauma-informed lens — because what's happening now didn't come out of nowhere.
When Things Are Hard to Talk About
Some things are hard to talk about. Trauma that still lives in your body. A relationship that's hurting. Patterns you can't seem to break no matter how hard you try. The feeling that something needs to change but you don't know where to start.
That feeling? It's often the beginning.
At Cabezas Therapy, we work with individuals and couples facing exactly that — the real, complicated, sometimes painful stuff. And we've seen again and again what becomes possible when people stop going it alone and get the right support.
Healing is real. Relationships can repair. You can feel like yourself again. Or witness who you have become.
Our New York City-based therapists specialize in trauma and relationships, bringing clinical depth and genuine warmth to every person who walks through the door — in person or online.
We work with:
Trauma — relational, developmental, and experiences that have shaped how you move through the world
Couples — conflict, disconnection, trust, and finding your way back to each other
Individuals — healing, patterns, identity, and learning to relate differently
Whatever brought you here, something in you already knows it's time. That's enough to start.
Who is therapy for?
Therapy can help if you:
Feel anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally exhausted
Struggle in relationships or experience recurring patterns
Are navigating identity, sexuality, or non-traditional relationships
Have a history of trauma that still affects you
Feel “high-functioning” but internally stuck or disconnected
You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people come in simply wanting to understand themselves more deeply.
How does therapy work?
Therapy is a collaborative process where we explore your thoughts, emotions, and patterns in a structured, supportive way. Together, we’ll identify what’s keeping you stuck and work toward new ways of relating to yourself and others.
My approach is relational, trauma-informed, and grounded in curiosity rather than judgment. This means we pay attention not just to what you’re experiencing, but how those experiences have been shaped over time.
What issues do you specialize in?
Anxiety and overwhelm
If your mind is constantly racing or you feel like you can’t slow down, therapy can help you understand the patterns driving that experience and develop ways to feel more grounded.
Trauma
Trauma can show up in subtle ways—difficulty trusting, emotional numbness, or repeating patterns in relationships. Therapy helps you process those experiences safely and at your own pace.
Relationships and intimacy
Whether you’re in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship, therapy can help with communication, boundaries, jealousy, and emotional connection.
Identity and self-understanding
Many clients come in feeling unsure of who they are or how they fit into the world. Therapy provides space to explore identity without pressure or judgment.
About the Therapist
Julian E. Cabezas is a licensed psychotherapist based in New York. His work focuses on trauma, relationships, LGBTQ+ identities, and non-monogamous partnerships.
His approach is relational, trauma-informed, and grounded in helping clients develop deeper awareness, emotional flexibility, and more authentic ways of relating.
Learn more about Julian here.
FAQs
How do I know if I need therapy?
If your thoughts, emotions, or relationships feel difficult to manage on your own, therapy can help. You don’t need to wait until things get worse—many people start therapy to better understand themselves and prevent patterns from continuing.
Is therapy helpful if I’m high-functioning?
Yes. Many clients who appear “high-functioning” externally still feel stuck, anxious, or disconnected internally. Therapy can help you address what’s happening beneath the surface.
Do you work with non-monogamous or polyamorous clients?
Yes. I work with individuals and partners in non-monogamous relationships, including polyamory and other ENM structures.
Can therapy help with both trauma and relationships?
Absolutely. Trauma often impacts how we relate to others. Therapy can help you understand those connections and build healthier patterns.
How long does therapy take?
It depends on your goals. Some clients come for short-term support, while others engage in longer-term work for deeper change.